Take time to notice. Art really is all about noticing. Listen to the sounds around you, the smells, touch, and look at how the sunlight shines through leaves, the colors around you, how they are different depending on the time of day, notice how everything has a shape, notice the lines, notice how objects relate to each other. Color, shape, line, and proportion are critical in art. Start to see how they play a role in the world around you. Point out little things you notice to your kids. Kids don't always need help with this, they often notice things we are too busy to see. Don't be too busy. Don't make it too boring either. It doesn't need to be an assignment. Just say, "oh, look at that leaf falling! It did a triple somersault! Wasn't that beautiful?" or find the man in the moon. You get the idea.
Draw for your kids. If they ask you to draw something for them or with them, do it, and don't say it's bad. If you are self conscious of your art they will model that. Proudly hang yours on the fridge with them. Also, if it does look bad and they tell you, don't feel bad, kids can be brutally honest sometimes & sometimes they have an opinion that isn't correct. Handle it the way you would want them to handle it. You can say, "really, what do you think I need to fix?" or you can agree and laugh about it, or you can say, "Hmm. I think I like it that way." Keep drawing anyway.
It's okay to go out of the lines. It's okay to color something a color it really isn't. It's okay to scribble all you want. It's okay to walk in the room and say, "oh what are you making?" or "tell me about your art" It's also okay if it isn't anything in particular.
It is always beautiful or amazing even if you don't think so. When you have boys drawing a war you can't really say it's beautiful, but you can say it's amazing. Don't worry about if your toddler (or you) has talent or not. It doesn't matter. Art is supposed to be enjoyed and a natural outlet or expression. All little kids love to sing and dance and make art just for fun. Don't mess that up by worrying about if they are good enough to get into a special school for that. Just let them have fun for awhile. As a child get's older it still isn't always so much about talent as it is being teachable.
Sometimes you might have a child who is capable of noticing the beauty and details around them so well that they try to recreate them and cannot meet their own expectations. I have a daughter who at three decided she did not ever want to draw again because the bears she kept trying to draw looked like a pile of rocks to her. Of course at 3 her bears looked like a pile of rocks! They were very adorable "rock bears" as she called them, but she wouldn't see that. She wanted them to look real.
I did tell her I like them. I didn't push her to draw or make her keep trying. For a long time she wouldn't draw. She'd do other things like cut and glue or sewing cards. Eventually she got over it on her own and has done some very beautiful things. My point is it isn't the end of the world and if there are art supplies available and opportunities to try, it's too much fun to ignore.
When I have children over for art lessons that I know are a little intimidated and self conscious of their art work I have shown them some of mine from when I was a kid. It doesn't look that amazing really and some of it even won art contests at school. We get a good chuckle.
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| My winning poster at 10 |
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| the rockbear |
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| roughly 10 years since the rockbear |
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| Another great since the rock bear incident |
